Archive for November, 2019


Nov. 12, 2019: Full Moon in Mercury Retrograde

November 12, 2019


Tuesday, November 12, 2019
Full Moon in Taurus
Neptune Retrograde
Uranus Retrograde
Mercury Retrograde

A full moon in Mercury Retrograde. Fun, right?

My mantra for Mercury Retrograde is: stay low, stay quiet, go shopping.

By “shopping” I mean at thrift shops or sales, where you can get good deals. Not big ticket items.

Most of the time, Mercury Retrograde leaves me feeling like the character in the painting “The Scream.”

It is a time to resolve issues from the past. I’m always tickled at the impulse to hunt down people I knew and lost touch with; a few days ago, I heard from someone I knew over twenty years ago, with whom I reconnected two or three Mercury Retrogrades back, but hadn’t heard from since.

Mercury goes direct on the 20th. Just do the best you can, every day. Try not to be too hard on yourself.



Nov. 5: Tending the Dead — The Lost

November 5, 2019

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What happens to those who die with no one to mourn for them?

Tonight’s ceremony is to honor those who are forgotten and/or lost.

They deserve care and dignity.


Nov. 4: Tending The Dead – Souls Preparing to Incarnate

November 4, 2019

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I still wrestle with the concept of reincarnation. Technically, it is part of my path. I have many questions.

However, wherever I am on the spectrum that particular year, I take time tonight to honor those preparing to reincarnate.



Nov. 3: Tending the Dead – The Animals

November 3, 2019

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This past year, I lost Lucy, our beloved rescue, adopted last summer. We still mourn her.

Far too many friends and colleagues lost beloved animal companions.

Far too many animals die of neglect or are killed in shelters.

Tonight, I honor the animals who died, both those I knew and those I didn’t.


Nov. 2: Tending the Dead — The Children

November 2, 2019

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Today is the day I honor the children who died. Some of them will be children I knew, or those lost by friends and acquaintances.

The other children honored in tonight’s ceremony are those who died in the concentration camps at the border. They must not be forgotten.

While I work with my elected officials to end these camps, make sure no more children die, and that those responsible are held accountable, I will also take time to remember and honors those individual children by name.


Nov. 1: Tending the Dead – Honoring Those I Knew

November 1, 2019

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The Day of the Dead is traditionally celebrated today. I’m lucky enough to have a working fireplace, and that’s where I display my Day of the Dead decor.

For the rest of the ceremonies over the next few days, I generally do them either at midnight going into the day or at 3 AM of the day, two times when I feel the work is particularly strong. I generally prefer 3 AM, because it’s quieter and I feel more connected.

Tonight is the night that I honor the friends, family, and acquaintances I know who died since last Samhain. I allow myself to miss them. I remember the good times. I’m glad they were a part of my life.